Ag leanúint ar aghaidh ó bhlag na seachtaine seo caite tá mé ag iarraidh labhairt ar an mbealach le suigh nó le luigh agus tú ag cleachtadh aireachais. Tá go leor amuigh ansin nach aontóidh liom ach mo thuairim féin air ná bí compordach. Má dhéanann tú iarracht suigh nó luigh ar bhealach atá míchompordach beidh an cleachtadh ar fad dírithe ar do mhíchompord.

Continuing on from last week’s blog a little bit, I want to talk about how to sit or lie or just generally be when you are meditating. There are lots of people out there who will disagree with me but my thoughts on it are very simple; be comfortable. If you try to force yourself to sit or lie some why that is uncomfortable for you the whole practice will become about your uncomfort. That is all that you will be able to think about or notice.

Rinne mé traenáil leis an eagraíocht Breathworks. Bíonn siad agus mé ag múineadh cúrsaí do dhaoine atá faoi strus agus daoine atá ag maireachtáil le pian. Toisc go mbíonn na rannpháirtithe sa darna cineál ranga i bpian deir muid leo iad féin a dhéanamh compordach agus is mar sin a bhím an t-aon rud a bheidh tú ag smaoineamh air.

I did my mindfulness training with the English organisation, Breathworks. They and I teach mindfulness courses for people suffering from chronic stress and chronic pain. Because the participants for the pain course are already in pain, we tell them to make themselves comfortable and I personally extend that sentiment to all of my class participants.

Má luíonn tú síos bíonn an buaireamh ann go dtitfidh tú i do chodail agus beidh an seans sin ann cinnte ach mas rud é gur sin an t-aon bhealach compordach atá agat le bheith ar feadh tréimhse aireachais luigh síos! Le do thoil! Má cheapann daoine go gcaithfidh siad a bheith ar bhealach ar leith nach bhfuil compordach dóibh is lú seans ann go leanfaidh siad leis an gcleachtadh.
If you lie down when you meditate there is the fear that you will fall asleep but if that is the only position you can comfortably sit in for a meditation session then by all means go ahead! If people think the only way to meditate is to sit in a certain position that is uncomfortable for them they there is a high chance the will not return to meditation. I would rather they are comfortable so they may choose to continue to practice.

Go bunúsach, bí compordach, cuir blaincéad ort má tá seans go n-éiríodh tú fuar, múch an fón nó fiú an fhuaim ar an bhfón agus déan iarracht a bheith in áit chiúin, rud go d’fhéadfaidh a bheith deacair faoi láthair le gach duine sa bhaile ach is fiú an iarracht a dhéanamh agus b’fhéidir iarraidh ar dhaoine a bheith beagán níos ciúine duit ar feadh tréimhse gairid.

Basically, be comfortable. If you think you’ll get cold use a blanket, turn off your phone or at least the sound on your phone and try to find somewhere quiet. This however may be a challenge due to everyone being at home but maybe you could ask your household to keep the noise down and if not, try to use the sounds. Can you hear the sounds going on around you and not react, just hear them and not make up a story about them? Let me know how that goes for you!

Le go mbeidh slat tomhais agat, bím féin i mo shuigh ar mo leaba nó ar an talamh agus cuirim mo dhroim in aghaidh balla le mé a choinneal díreach agus cuirim mo chosa díreach amach os mo chomhair. Sin an bealach is fearr domsa ach go bunúsach, níl bealach ar leith níos fearr ná bealach eile, déan an rud a oibríonn duitse agus beidh tú i gceart!

To give you an idea, when I meditate I sit on the bed or on the floor and I lean my back against the wall. I put my feet straight out in front of me and I always use a blanket because I tend to get cold. This is a way that works for me; I am comfortable and I am warm. Find a way that works for you and stick with that.

Má tá tuilleadh moltaí nó eolas ag éinne nó má tá stiúir uait i do chleachtadh aireachais tosóidh mo chéad chúrsa aireachais eile ar an Déardaoin, 8 Aibreán. Bígí i dteagmháil liom más suim leat é a phlé. 

If anyone is looking for more information or advice or if you’re looking for some guidance on your meditation practice I will be starting another adult mindfulness class on Thursday, 8th April so let me know if you want to have a chat about it!

Dúirt duine éigin liom le déanaí “níl mé ag déanamh é i gceart é ach tá mé ag baint tairbhe as” agus an rud is coitianta a chloisim i ndiaidh na habairte sin ná “Tá mé go fóill ag smaoineamh go leor le linn an aireachais agus mar sin tá mé á dhéanamh mícheart”.

Someone said to me recently “I don’t think I’m doing it properly but I’m still enjoying it” and the most common next sentence I hear is “I’m still thinking so I’m doing it wrong.”

Níl muid in ann ár smaointe a stopadh. Tá sé dodhéanta. Ní fiú duit triail a bhaint as mar cur amú ama a bheidh ann agus le linn seisiúin aireachais ní sin an aidhm atá againn. Ní drochrudaí iad na smaointe a bhíonn againn. Is iontach an rud é an smaointeoireacht. Gan na smaointe a bhíonn againn ní bheadh muid san áit atáimid mar chine daonna. D’úsáid muid an cuid dár inchinn a bhíonn ag smaoineamh le tithe a thógáil, le bia a bhailiú agus é a chócaireacht. Gan an prefrontal cortex inár inchinn bheadh muid mar moncaithe go fóill.

We can’t stop our thoughts. It’s impossible so there’s no point in trying, you’d be wasting your time. But stopping our thoughts isn’t the aim of mindfulness. Our thoughts are not bad. Without our prefrontal cortex which sits on the top of our brains at the front of our heads we wouldn’t be where we are today as humans. It is thanks to our thoughts that we can build houses, cars, roads, how we are able to adapt to our environments and change as we need to, whether that means we are no longer monkeys or whether we have to adapt to living with a virus that is threatening our populations.

Tarlaíonn fadhbanna len ár smaointe nuair nach bhfuil muid in ann na smaointe a stopadh. Le linn an chúrsa 10 lá ciúnais a rinne mé, a chur tús le m’aisteoir mar mhúinteoir aireachais agus suaimhnis dúirt siad linn go rialta go raibh muid ag iarraidh smacht a fháil ar ár smaointe mar go dtí go bhfuil smacht againn ar na smaointe beidh smacht acu orainn. Sampla d’am go bhfuil smacht ag mo smaointe ormsa ná nuair a dhúisím le linn na hoíche agus níl mé in ann titim ar ais i mo chodail toisc go bhfuil mé ag smaoineamh. Tosaím ag smaoineamh ar mo mháthair agus a breithlá, ansin smaoiním ar an Nollag agus go raibh sé aisteach de bharr Covid agus go mbeidh sé níos aistí arís an bhliain seo chugainn mar tabharfaidh mé faoi deara níos mó nach raibh m’uncail ann. Ansin tosaím ag smaoineamh ar shochraid m’uncail agus na comhráite deireanacha a bhí againn agus ansin tá mé ag smaoineamh ar Aoife agus sochraid Aoife agus ar aghaidh agus ar aghaidh agus ar aghaidh. Go dtí go bhfuil mé feargach liom féin toisc go bhfuil an locht orm féin nach bhfuil mé in ann codail agus mé ag smaoineamh an méid seo.

Problems occur with our thoughts when we cannot stop them. During my 10 days of silence course that catapulted me into the world of teaching mindfulness they spoke to us about gaining control of our minds so that our minds don’t have control of us. An example of a time that my mind has control over me is when I wake up in the middle of the night and I then can’t fall back to sleep. It will start with me thinking of my mum and her birthday, I’ll then think of Christmas and how it was a bit weird because of Covid but next year might be even more weird when it will feel even more evident that my uncle isn’t with us. I might then start thinking about my uncle’s funeral and the last conversations I had with him. Then I’m thinking about Aoife who past away just before Michael and what was the last thing I said to her and on and on and on until I’m angry with myself for still being awake and it’s all my own fault because I kept thinking.

An aithníonn éinne againn an nós sin? Ar tharla sé duitse riamh? Tarlaíonn sé domsa fiú agus mé i ndiaidh blianta d’aireachas a chleachtadh. Sula ndearna mé an cúrsa 10 lá sin bhí seachtain mhaith codalta agam agus mé ag codail go maith dhá oíche, anois is droch-seachtain é más rud é go bhfuil dhá oíche de dhroch-chodail agam, mar sin tá feabhas tagtha ar rudaí ach tarlaíonn sé go fóill, faraor! Mar sin, más rud é go bhfuil tú nua ag cleachtadh aireachais nó má tá cleachtadh seanbhunaithe agat má tá go leor leor smaointe agat an t-am ar fad agus ní ciallaíonn na smaointe sin go bhfuil tú á dhéanamh mícheart.

Can anyone identify with this? Has this happened to you? Although I have a regular meditation practice and I have for at least 3 years now it still happens to me. That being said, before I did the 10 day retreat I had a good week if I had two good night’s sleep in a week, now if I have two bad night’s sleep in a week it’s a bad week, so it’s an improvement. But whether you are a new meditator or a dab hand at meditating and have been doing it for years you will still have lots of thoughts all the time and this does not mean you are “doing it wrong”.

Le linn seisiúin aireachais an rud atá tú ag iarraidh a dhéanamh le do smaointe ná iad a aithint. Ní stopfaidh tú iad agus níl tú ag iarraidh iad a stopadh ach le cleachtadh beidh tú in ann seasamh siar uathu agus iad a fheiceáil agus gan a bheith ceangailte leo agus gan iad a aithint. Is maith liom an íomhá den abhainn a úsáid; samhlaigh go bhfuil tú i do shuigh in aice le habhainn agus tá tú ag iarraidh fanacht ar bhruach na habhann. In ionad uisce a bheith san abhainn seo, do smaointe atá ann. Má fhanann tú ar an mbruach tá tú in ann na smaointe a fheiceáil, ligeann tú dóibh teacht isteach, aithníonn tú go bhfuil siad ann agus imíonn tú leo gan tú féin ag cruthú scéil nó aon rud thart orthu. Gach uair go bhfeiceann tú smaoineamh agus imíonn tú leis ie tosaíonn tú ag smaoineamh agus imíonn tú go domhain éigin eile, nuair a aithníonn tú sin tagann tú ar ais chugat féin agus ar ais go bruach na habhainn. An cleachtadh atá i gceist le haireachas ná an teacht ar ais sin. Caithfidh tú cleachtadh a dhéanamh ar teacht ar ais chugat féin, ar ais go dtí an anáil nó ar ais go dtí na mothúcháin atá agat san am i láthair.

When you are meditating, what you are trying to do with your thoughts it to recgonise them as thoughts and to step back from them without getting caught up with them or believing them completely. I like to use the image of a river. Imagine you are sitting on a riverbank

Tá siúl agam go luíonn sé sin ar fad le ciall agus go dtuigeann sibh céard atá i gceist agam. Má tá ceist ar bith eile agat cuir scéal chugam agus tar ar ais an tseachtain seo chugainn nuair a labhróidh mé faoin gcaoi gur ‘ceart’ duit a bheith i do shuigh nó i do luigh agus tú ag cleachtadh aireachais.

I hope that all makes sense, if anyone has any questions please don't hesitate to contact me. Next week I'm going to talk a little about the 'right' way to sit or lie when you  mediate, or is there a right way...? You'll just have to come back to find out!

Tá an Earrach buailte linn, faoi deara thiar thall! Agus tá mé ag siúl go mór leis na laethanta níos faide agus dóchas a aireachtáil! Dóchas go dtiocfaidh deireadh leis an dianghlasáil go luath...

It’s Spring! Finally! I’m really looking forward to longer days and hope! Hope that these lockdowns will end soon...

An tseachtain seo tá mé ag iarraidh leanúint ar aghaidh ó bhlag na seachtaine seo caite. Tabharfaidh mé cur síos daoibh ar an darna cuid den rang Relax Kids. Is sa chuid seo den rang go dtosaíonn muid ag ciúnú síos agus ag socrú síos le bheith réidh le luigh síos agus scíth a ligint agus muid ag éisteacht le ceol agus scéalta beaga gearra.

This week I want to continue on from last week’s blog talking about the Relax Kids classes and what they entail. So this week we’ll talk about the second half of the classes. This half is where we start to relax and wind down, getting ready to lie down and relax while listening to music and some beautiful Relax Kids visualisations.

Síntí/Stretches

D’fhag mé ag na cluichí sibh an tseachtain seo caite agus an chéad chuid eile den rang ná síntí. Déanann muid síntí atá cosúil le síntí a dhéantar ag ranganna ióga. Cabhraíonn na síntí le teannas a scaoileadh amach as an gcolainn. Choinníonn muid an-chuid teannais sa cholainn agus fanfaidh sé ann muna scaoileann muid amach é. Úsáideann muid an anáil le linn an chuid seo den rang freisin agus bíonn deis ag na páistí cártaí a phiocadh le fáil amach céard é an chéad síneadh eile a dhéanfaimid.

I left ye at the games and play last week so we’ll continue on from there which during a class would mean we would move onto the stretch step. We do some simple yoga-type stretches during this part of the class to release tension our body holds. Using the breath we move in different ways in each pose and the children have a chance to pick cards and tell us what pose they want to do as well. I love interactive classes because it means the families get to tell me what they want to do and it’s more craic for me!

Úsáid do lámha/Feel

I ndiaidh na síntí, úsáideann muid ár lámha ar a chéile agus orainn féin. Labhraíonn muid faoin gcnaipe suaimhnis atá ionann ar fad agus déanann muid cácaí agus píotsa ar a chéile. Bíonn muid ag smaoineamh ar na rudaí gur maith linn a dhéanamh le linn an chuid seo den rang freisin. Labhraíonn muid agus bíonn muid ag tarraingt pictiúir de na rudaí deasa a rinne muid ar an lá sin.

After stretches we move into self and peer massage which is my favourite step to do with families. I love watching families help each other relax and quieten down while they give each other a gentle massage. We pretend to make pizzas and cakes on each others backs (with permission of course!) and we also talk about things we enjoy doing and we draw pictures of good things that have happened to us and for us during that day.

Anáil/Breath

An darna chéim dheireanach sa rang ná anáil. Is céim ann féin é cé go mbíonn muid ag úsáid an anáil le linn an ranga. Le linn an chéime seo, bíonn muid ag déanamh cleasanna beaga gur féidir linn a dhéanamh agus a úsáid ag am ar bith agus in áit ar bith. Bíonn go leor craice againn freisin ag úsáid ainmhí leis an anáil a chleachtadh chomh maith!

Our second last step is breath and while breath has it’s own full step, we use our breath to help calm our minds and bodies throughout the whole class. during this class we teach tips and tricks to help make the breath more accessible. We do different activities that are really simple and can be done at any point during the night or day. And of course, we have the craic with it by adding animal breathing and some loud noises into the mix!

Luigh síos/Relax

Agus ansin, ag deireadh an ranga luíonn gach duine síos pé bealach agus pé áit atá compordach dóibh agus éisteann muid le ceol agus bím féin ag caint ar an gcolainn agus an caoi atá sé ag mothú. Is breá liom an cuid seo den rang a dhéanamh agus an teaghlach ar fad le chéile agus iad sa bhaile mar chiallaíonn sé go gcruthaíonn siad spás agus áit sa teach go bhfuil siad in ann aireachas a chleachtadh. Chomh maith leis sin, má fheiceann na páistí go bhfuil na tuismitheoirí á dhéanamh freisin beidh níos mó measa acu air agus tá níos mó seans ann go mbeidh suim acu é a dhéanamh. Is rud álainn é más féidir leat aireachas a chleachtadh le do pháistí nó le do phairtnéir. 

And each classes finishes with the families lying on their bed, the floor, couch or whatever it is they have around them that is comfortable. We listen to some beautiful, relaxing music and I read out some Relax Kids visualations while the whole family lie quietly together listening. I love this part of the class particularly when it is the whole family doing it. It’s such a beautiful practice to get into and it creates a calming, relaxing atmosphere in the house.

Más suim leat féin a bheith linn don chéad chúrsa seo den bhliain, ranganna uair an chloig ar feadh sé seachtain a bheidh ann agus tá na sonraí ar fad ar fáil anseo. Má tá tuilleadh ceisteanna agat faoin gcúrsa ba bhreá liom labhairt leat faoi. Cuir ríomhphost go solasrelaxation@gmail.com agus socróidh muid am atá feiliúnach don bheirt againn! Tá mé ar bís le tosú!

So, if you want to join me for this Relax Kids six week course check out all of the information here and if you would like to have a chat about the course please let me know by emailing solasrelaxation@gmail.com. I can’t wait to get started!